SWINGERS GUIDE, INFORMATION & ARTICLES ON THE SWINGING LIFESTYLE
We hate to be so square as to use the words “safety first.” Yet in this era of AIDS and post-AIDS STDS,
we swingers are particularly vulnerable. The CW that “a swinging swinger is a healthy swinger” can be
misleading. Insist on protection and get you and your partners tested-often!
OK, now that we’ve finished our lecture, let’s get to to good stuff: Swinging Sex. How many times in your
life have you seen a person walking down the street and thought, “Wow, I’d like to have sex with that
person!” We’re not talking marriage or even a relationship, just pure sex. Well, would you like to
find out how to lead a swinger lifestyle?
best way is to prevent hurt feelings between you and your mate. So before, during and after swinging,
articulate what you want(ed) out of the experience. What you liked and disliked so each next experience
will be better and each of you will feel comfortable knowing what’s best for your personal relationship.
Sure, surprise sounds fine in the abstract, but that’s usually a recipe for misunderstanding. The better you
grasp your partners’ expectations, the more vital and erotic the experience will be.
That said, you need not ruin the sexual adventure by describing every last kiss. Part of the excitement of
swinging is not knowing what will happen next. Just make sure to define your general boundaries – you’ll
be glad you did.
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